Whoopi Goldberg rips the Christians

On Wednesday Whoopi Goldberg criticized Christians for not loudly condemning sex trafficking in the wake of Jeffrey Epstein's arrest allegedly for the above offence.  Her criticism is perhaps valid as she is not the only one noticing the silence of the conservatives.  Unfortunately for Whoopi, Christians generally do not condone sex-trafficking and some of those entities she called out for special mention in fact work with the victims of sex-traffickers. (Whoops!)

Meanwhile Whoopi's record in this regard is less than stellar.  Were the Epstein "models" merely raped or were they rape-raped?

Cleaning

My mother tells me that when my brother was young and had obviously just been weened onto a bottle he would throw up a lot.  His vomiting never seemed to upset him or stop him from doing whatever he wanted.  He would crawl around the house leaving a trail of vomit behind him.  We (or rather my parents) found out later that he had a food intolerance that was causing him to reject food.  It seems that I gave myself the job of chief vomit cleaner.  He was around six months old and I was all of two.  I would follow him around the house wielding a (somewhat soiled, one suspects) cloth nappy (or diaper for any Americans) cleaning up vomit spills as they occurred.  I am guessing my mother then followed me around, cleaning my cleaning.  She may even have wished that I desist from rubbing vomit into the carpet with my trusty cleaning cloth. 

On Same Sex Marriage - the case for the No vote

The other day one of my favourite columnists, Tim Blair said that in any debate you should side with the team that sounds less crazy.   He then noted that the “No Campaign” for Same Sex Marriage (SSM) or Marriage Equality (as they like to call it) have used the argument that saying “Yes” to this proposal will, through the slippery slope lead to people wanting to marry cabbages.  I haven’t seen this particular argument used but maybe it has; there's a wacko in every crowd.

The “Yes campaign” do not need the wacky outliers however to put forward a crazy argument.  It’s right there in their preferred slogan, “Marriage Equality”.  Leaving aside the argument that at all competent men and women are already equally free to marry another person of the opposite sex, (this statement having no traction with the “marriage equality” crowd due to the fact that they wish to marry someone of the same sex)  SSM can never be equal to a normal marriage.  They are just not the same thing.  It’s scientifically impossible.  Don’t call me a hater.  Blame God.  Blame Mother Nature.  Blame Gaia.  Blame whoever, it’s out of our control.

When a man and a woman get married they form a family, whether or not they have children, because one is a husband and the other is a wife.  They have a complimentary but equal union.   A SSM cannot have this.  Two women come together – there is no husband.  Two men come together - there is no wife.   We heteros looking in from the outside try to assign these roles to a same sex couple but the people inside know that these concepts do not work in their relationship.    So a SSM cannot achieve equality with a normal marriage because it is missing either a husband or a wife and having two of the other cannot provide what is missing.

A SSM is also unequal because it is always barren.  It is true that some normal marriages are also barren but a SSM is barren by design.  One or both partners may have children with someone else, through sperm donation or surrogacy or previous relationships but the two people in a SSM will never produce their own offspring; unlike a normal marriage which is fertile and where people often produce children by accident.  Children in a SSM environment are necessarily the products of a broken home with all the problems that that entails.

So the SSM advocates will say that this is not what they mean by equality, apparently they only mean equality before the law.  SS couples already have equality before the law.  If you register your relationship with the government you are entitled to the same rights as a de facto couple.  One gay man told me that he needed to register his relationship, like a dog, but a marriage celebrant does the same thing.  Government paperwork is government paperwork.  So they are campaigning for something they already have.  How crazy is that?

So what do they really want?  They want a stick to hit conservatives, religious people and anyone who disapproves of their lifestyle with.  This is clear from, as Malcolm Turnbull would say, looking at the countries that already have SSM.  While Americans have a bill of rights protecting religious freedoms, it does not protect you from having to defend yourself in court if your business chooses not to participate in a SSM due to your religious beliefs.  In Britain it is not okay for Catholic Schools to be homophobic or against SSM.  Children in Australian public primary schools are being taught about homosexual sex and the parents are not informed of these classes or allowed to opt out.  The Safe Schools program was introduced in Victoria in 2010 and nationally in 2014 and has been recently been repealed in NSW.  

People are ridiculed when they invoke the slippery slope argument but we’ve been sliding down that sucker since they brought in the no-fault divorce.   SSM won't lead to people marrying cabbages but saying that the slippery slope doesn’t exist and that this change won't affect all Australians is crazy.

Peas

My brother Jack hates peas and pumpkin.  Why he hates pumpkin, I do not know but he hates peas more.  Maybe the reason for this aversion is that my mother used to cook them until they were a grey soggy mess.  No-one in my family liked them much but my brother hated them.  Despite the fact that none of her children loved peas, we used to see them on our dinner plate with some regularity and they would always be attended by drama and tears.  Perhaps my mother secretly loved drama and tears.  Perhaps she thought that every meal was attended by drama and tears, so bring it on!

Jack's usual response to seeing peas on his plate was to throw a tantrum and refuse to eat them.  This made for a wonderful atmosphere at the dinner table.  There would be cajoling and yelling and forcing.  Both parents would end up being involved.  The rest of us would slowly and quietly eat our dinner hoping not to get caught up in any escalation.  My sister who hated peas just as much as Jack practiced swallowing the peas whole so that she didn't need to bite into the squishy mess of pea.  By the time she left school, she could swallow whole forkfuls.

One day my Jack tried a different tack.  He decided that he would take his peas to the bathroom and flush them down the toilet.  The trouble was transporting them there.  There were too many for his hands to carry and my mother may notice his tiny fists with grey green mush oozing between his fingers.  He had no pockets.  His shorts were loose and would not hold anything.  He put them in his underpants and went to the toilet.

My mother perhaps alerted by the lack of drama and tears at the dinner table so far came to inspect his plate and immediately noticed the absence of peas.  This was unusual, as Jack always left the things he hated until last as he hoped to get away with not eating them.  My mother began to suspect a ruse.  She checked the bin and looking down noticed a Hansel and Gretel like trail of peas leading up to the bathroom.  She rushed after my brother and burst into the toilet which was unlocked (brothers!)  and caught him with his pants around his knees, scooping peas out of his underwear.   Those little blighters were slippery.

My mother screamed.  Jack's pants were removed.  There may have been some smacking.  The peas were gathered up, including all those that had dropped on the ground between the kitchen and the bathroom and were dumped back on Jack's plate.  The pants were put back onto Jack's bottom and he was made to sit back down at the table.  He would not be getting up until everything on that plate was eaten.

"But the peas have been in his undies!"  we cried.

Well he had put them there and he could live with the consequences of that action.

"Gross!" we cried, though there may have been some snickering.

So he sat and ate his meal including every last pea and he was never allowed to go the the toilet during a meal again.

Smacking

I grew up in a time when smacking was common and indeed, I was smacked on occasion.  My brother was smacked at least daily and often caned at school as well.  He found conforming to society's rules, well, difficult.  Well when I say smacked, the word today would be beaten.  My father preferred to use a strap when doling out his corporal punishment partly because said brother was known to laugh at beatings that did not physically hurt.  I can say that these beatings did us no harm, though in my brother's case they probably didn't do him much good either.

Our punishments often came with a warning.  "Go get me my strap!"  And the miscreant would indeed scuttle off to find this instrument of torture, even the aforementioned brother.  One time, my sister realising that she was in deep trouble, used this warning to prepare.  Ostensibly looking for "the strap" she raced to our bedroom and put on every pair of underpants that she owned and probably a pair or two of mine.  I think that she may have had to change into track pants as well, now that her jeans no longer fit.  Then out she came for her punishment.  She felt as though she was waddling as the layers of underpants did not allow her legs to touch.  She bent over for her beating, taking care to keep her hands out of the way.  A strap across your hands hurts far more than one across the butt.  The strap came down and her ruse had worked.  She barely felt it.  She felt an urge to laugh but stifled it.  The strap came down again, and again no pain.  The strap came down a third time and my sister let out a loud and distressed wail.  There was perhaps a fourth hit and the wailing continued and then my sister was allowed to run to her bedroom.

Once in her bedroom with the door shut tight, the wailing turned into hysterical laughter.   She began peeling off all the protective layers.

"Why are you laughing?"  we whispered at her.

"It didn't hurt at all,"  she answered.

"But, you were crying,"  we said.

"Yes, when I realised that normally I would have been crying by now I had to fake cry.  Otherwise I would have got caught.  I was so scared anyway.  When the strap came down, it seemed to thud like he was hitting a cushion.  I thought that he'd be able to tell for sure.